Goop] Energy is a palpable, animating life force—one that we can all understand in the context of how we feel from day-to-day (sluggish, over-tired, or on the flip side, invincible). Usually we attribute our low energy days to a lack of sleep or bad food. But it’s significantly more complicated than that, according to therapist Aimee Falchuk, who believes that our energetic systems might very well be impacted by physical, emotional, and cognitive blocks we’ve picked up from childhood. Falchuk, who practices a Reichian theory of body-centered psychotherapy from the school of Core Energetics, spends her time helping people free or move stuck emotional energy so that they can tap into their full potential. (For more from Falchuk, see her piece for us on how to use anger productively.)
We often complicate the word energy by trying to define it in
scientific or mystical terms. All we need to understand energy is to get
quiet and feel into ourselves or our surroundings. For example, when we
feel present, our energy is grounded; when we feel attraction or
repulsion, we may feel an energetic charge; when we laugh or cry, we may
feel a discharge of our energy.
Certain situations or people can deplete our energy. Alternatively,
in places where we don’t feel we are enough, we may cling onto others
using their fuel source as our own. Even boundaries are a matter of
energy: We may bind our energy when we want to create separation, and
let our energy flow openly when we want to come close.
One of the first things we learn in school is that energy can neither
be created nor destroyed—but that it can be altered. Energy can be sped
up or slowed down. It can exist in a closed system in which the energy
is held or bound, or it can exist in an open system in which the energy
flows. Uncontained energy can cause a system to become frenetic or
fragmented. Depleted energy can cause a system to collapse.
Despite its power, energy in of itself is a neutral force. It is
consciousness that directs its movement. If we think of this in terms
of the energy and consciousness of the human experience we may see that
the more conscious we are, the more we direct our energy towards
creation, connection, and evolution. The less conscious we are, the more
our energy is used towards separation, stagnation, or even destruction. Read More